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writes:I have concerns about my husband. I keep noticing him paying attention to everything in his life but me. I realize the honeymoon has been over for half a year now, but I liked the way things were. I liked being his best friend. Tonight I was on a craigslist and found where he had been looking for "casual meetings" with women in our area. I want to think that he was curious when he saw that people would actually post themselves on a craigslist to meet casually and therefore had to check it out. It is hard to think that, however. I am 4 months pregnant. I can't do some of the fun things I used to do. Is it possible that he's only in love while it's exciting? What on earth do I do? How do I approach this without sounding like I'm distrusting and checking up on him?
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reader, Gertie  +, writes (1 March 2011):
You need to nip this is the bud now and voice your concerns. If he is meeting up with other women in your area,then he is betraying his marriage vows,pure and simple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): You need to be very up front with him and tell him you are concerned about trust. You need to absolutely be honest with him how you feel or your feelings will be supressed and that will later come out in resentment and possible anger. What he is doing is wrong and his loyalty is very questionable now. He is obviously not satisfied with the marriage and that needs to be communicated by him and if necessary managed thru counseling. Good luck.
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