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Husband is in jail in another country and I'm tempted by others

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Question - (31 August 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2014)
A female Philippines age 22-25, *aria rubi writes:

Hi it's been 2 years already since I wrote all my lovelife here, from fling to boyfriend to marriage to break up, I'm still here again and again asking for help aunts. And so I decided to fight my husband and protect our marriage as much as I can but suddenly as we move together in a foreign country(his country) after 9 months of living together on 2012 he was put into jail almost a year from now and until now no verdicts, and I can't even speak to him because I came back in my country. I don't know what shall I do now, I am always waiting and actually until now no no boyfriend or any other fling because I believe on my husband's freedom. But day to day I suddenly realize i must enjoy also love and be happy but I can't because as far as I know my husband is still also hoping for me. What shall I do? do I have suitors but I don't know what to do. Please advise me aunts!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2014):

Get a divorce. You deserve to go on with your life. Its for the best.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (31 August 2014):

Start divorce proceedings while he's still in jail. He's been in jail a whole year and no verdict? What's he accused of?

Must be pretty serious, if he's been in that long and still going to trial! Move on with your life. He's going to be worse when he gets out, than when he went in. Chances are, when he gets out, he's going to accuse you of affairs anyway!

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