Husband accusing me of cheating when he had said we were seperated and could do what we wanted!

A female age , *pie0000 writes:

My husband has cheated numerous times during our marriage. Most recently I became suspicious and recorded a female voice in the house while I was at work. He will not admit to having a woman in the house but he admits to previous activities. I went on vacation without him and got naked with a much younger man but I refused sex. Before I left on vacation my husband said ok we are seperated and can do whatever we want without telling the other. Well I told him what happened and now he is telling me I am the cheat. I feel like I have been setup by him so he can tell everyone that I was the one that cheated. The same thing happened with his first wife. He cheated with her best friend at their marital home and then his ex wife was seen making out with someone. He always told me that his wife cheated on him also. I have never cheated before in my life! I feel horrible! Now my husband says we are even now and we should forgive and forget? All I feel is that he brought me down to his level! Am I really a cheat if it was ageed before I left that we do whatever? I couldn't bring myself to go through with it!

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