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How to snog

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Question - (1 November 2007) 38 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

dear cupid i have this girl freind and we both want to snog but i have never done it before and i want to do it right so i dont make a fool of my self please help me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

ok...ive read all the feedback and it says the same thing "it all comes naturally", how often do you move ur tongue around? and is it always touching the tongue or is it movin around? thank you for whoever can tell me! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008):

I snogged my boyfriend for the first time today. It was my first snog aswell. I thought that i was gonna mess it up but ( i know this sounds weird)when u start kissing it just comes to you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

Hi,

I jus wana say i havent snogged yet and its really annoying people at shool r sayin "have u snogged" and stuff. I really dont know how if she opened her dam mouth i would go for it! lol. Its jus i dont know when!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008):

JUST DO IT IT ALLL COMESNATURAL

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008):

dear person

when you snog it will all come in reaction butt still, open your mouth slghtly and tilt your head a tiny bit then if you want you can carry on snogging or yu can g 2 tha nxt stage and start frech kissing (i like 2 call them frehies =P)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008):

Don't worry - if she really likes you she won't mind if you just explain the situation. Just close your eyes and go slowly and softly, without too much spit. Use your tongue a little if you feel safe, but leave her wanting more. Good luck!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

right i would like to clear this up

most girls wont like u touching there ass

my boyfriend did it and i stood on his toe 4 it

so to avoid any injurys

dont touch the ass

xxxx

bex

xxxx

oh im having the same problem nd i got a date on weds were going to the cinima *i got a bf tho not a gf* nd he totaly wants a snog

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008):

i had the same problem a cople of months ago , just snog her and dont get embarassed if you do then just say that its your first time ..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008):

hi thanks for the advice peeps im goin for it tomorow so wish me luck! thanks again

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008):

There isnt really a right way to do it tbh. the only things you need to remember are...

1. Tilt your head the opposite way to them. otherwise she'll end up with neck ache lol.

2. do NOT get your teeth in the way.

3. Just go for it basically lol.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008):

its all quite easy,{best to be alone for the first time} stand close to each other,,

tilt your head the opposite to your partner,

and start it of like a normal kiss, then wether you want to use tongues or not,,

No Tongues -

You slightly open your mouth then close, the opposite time to your partner, thats all you do

Tongues -

there is many different ways, french kissing, its just like no tongues but when our mouthes are open you and your partners tongue join {or circle your partners tongue}

Nip kissing - while your partner and you are snogging you very gently nibble their lip, {use this after a few times of snogging otherwise you may snog your partner}

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008):

jus go with it kissing jus comes naturally for everyone even if you dont think you can! hope this helps xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008):

Don't worry about it because if you worry you get all tense & it goes wrong . just go with the flow do what ever comes natually. it happend to me & when your actually doin it you forget bout what you planned and just go with the flow, DO NOT lan it .

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008):

you will know how to do it once you start kissing

trust me!

x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008):

all what you have to do is put your ares aroung her turn your face and have a long kiss.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008):

Okiis. Awh Thats So Sweet.

Don't Just Ask (It Kills The Mood) Or Plan It.

Just Sit Next To Her, Then Touch Her Affectionately (Hold Her Hand, Put Your Arm Around Her, Etc.)

Then Just Kiss Her Like You Normally Would, Look Into Her Eyes, Turn Your Head At An Angle, (Hopefully She'll Move Her Head To The Other Side)

Snogging Is Just A Long Kiss, But A Bit More Movement.Move Your Arms Around. Put Your Arms Around Her, Touch Her Ass, Be Adventurous. Just Remember: NEVER Keep Your Arms On Your Side, You Just Look Stupid.

Just Enjoy It And Go With The Flow.

Hope I've Helped =]

Good Luck. X

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007):

I think you shouldnt really talk to them about it.. you may want them to know.. but also you dont want them going back and telling their friends and other people if people ask him or her! It can be embarrasing... but do what you feel is right... What you really feel conftable with!

Go for it!

Good Luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007):

hey im a girl and im 12 and all my friends have done it so i thought of getting myself a boyfriend to go abit further. my friends said they had no idea how to do it they just gave a normall kiss like a pick one and then they jsut started rolling there mouth around what ever you do dont practice just do it cause your get the hang of it

good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007):

well when i started snogging it was brill so follow these instructiond

1.make sure you are both comfortable

2.if she leans in you do it(slowly)

3.when you get your togue in just make sure it is with hers.

4.move around each others mouths a bit not 2 much ok!

THE EXTRA BIT(i.eSEX)

1.when u are ready and her if sh goes 4 u do the sme but if she dosent just undo 1 thing of hers and see how it goes and then well...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007):

I know that this won't be very helpful but I agree with everyone when they say to just go with the flow. It's not exactly how you do it. You just do it. Trust me, I was really nervous when my bf gave me my first kiss but before you know it, you'll have it down how to kiss/snog. It's not exactly how you do it, you just do it.

Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007):

Ive never snogged before but Im sure that you just open ur mouth and do some tung twizzlin!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007):

hi its okay just dont move in to quickly because you might bump heads and believe me that is very embrassing, and dont be nervous, but it is more nerve racking when a big group of people are with make sure you are on your own when you have your first kiss well snog,

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007):

dont worry

i am scared about my first snog too

but if your partener really cares about you they wont care if you do it wrong at first

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007):

just play around with your tongue and your soon get youst to ut

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007):

it's really easy, by the time you are doing it you don't even realise what you are doing and ur instincts take over. if you just relax

good luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007):

look. I kissed my boyfriend the other day and it was a normal peck on the lips, then i hugged him and went in to kiss him again and instead of a peck we hed it there and then he decided he wanted to add the tongue and did, without asking. just try that. its completely passionate.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007):

well just find a special place and make sure shes ready and go for it if u love her u would

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007):

hey!!

ok its seriously nothing to worry about...I am a girl and when a boy gets going with his tongue, the girl starts to get hyper and reacts with such passion that you will forget all your worries straight away! If you are nervous about making the move then just bring your girl in close and look at her in the eyes like you love her. 99 percent of girls including me like this very much and usually bring their heads in closer to you for you to do it some more and lock in your lips. You will know the girl wants to do it if she does this and moves her body and chest towards you..

good luck mate! x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007):

hey dude, dont worry about it, its awesome when you first get started. a hot girl just getting pressed up against you while you just eat each other up... i tried my first time just 5 days ago and i tell you, it is sooo nice. and im only 12. althought my girlfriend is 14. but, yeh. just try it out. it gives you that happy feeling in your stomach and you just wanna kiss them again and again..:) dont worry.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007):

just go with the flow do wat eva fleels right but strart off with lots of lillte kisses

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007):

jus go up 2 her and ask if u want 2 snog if she want 2 snog her 2 death nd shue u toung right down her hrought

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A male reader, Andy00 United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2007):

Andy00 agony auntI'm rather confused how there are a few of you who don't know what snogging is. All the same, I will explain.

Snogging is just a term for French Kissing, or; Kissing with tongues.

It's a lot like normal kissing, only every so often, you open your mouthes and allow your tongues to connect.

That's my definition anyway. Do you understand now?

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A female reader, lil'shade United States +, writes (1 November 2007):

Wat da heck is snog? I thought it wuz sex. Anyways whateva U talkin bout watch a flick. P.S Just tell her your a virgin & then snog.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

Dude, trust me it all comes naturally - might sound corny but its true, I worried like this on my first kiss too - All I did was try and kiss like they do on TV - and it came together great! Trust me, don't think about it, just DO it. My first pull was amazing!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

how do i actualy snog though

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

Dont panick, it will all come naturally. like andy said it may not be amazing on the first go, but it doesnt matter even the most experienced kisses may not be the best.

just start of with a small little kiss, the gradually open your mouth mayb play with her tounge a bit, just go with the flow. itll all come together. also just make sure your arms arent just flaling about, hold her round the waist or lowerback and mayb stroke her a bit. do what you feel is right.

good luck :) x

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A male reader, Asexy United States +, writes (1 November 2007):

Asexy agony auntTake it slow, be gentle. Don't open your mouth too far or go too deep. Start with lots of little kisses.

Once you're both better at it, and things get going, it will just come naturally.

Be sure to be open to talking about it. If she feels safe enough to give you feedback about your kissing (or anything else about your physical relationship), this is really COOL! Different girls like different things, and this kind of communication says good things about your relationship. So be sure to talk about it.

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A male reader, Andy00 United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2007):

Andy00 agony auntDoes she know that you've never done it before?

Just try it! It's something that takes a little time to get the hang of. Try to avoid clashing teeth is the best advice I can give. It hurts.

Don't worry so much about it. Just relax and see how it goes. It's like Sex; if you don't get it right the first time, it doesn't mean that it's always going to be that way. It just takes a little practise.

Good luck!

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