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How to make my husband last longer during intercourse?

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Question - (12 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Dear cupid.

I have a question about my husbands problem. We have an ok sex life but he only last a couple seconds its no longer then 5 min. We tryed all the sprays to last longer and even got him off befor sex but he still dont last long can anyone please tell me what else we can do because i dont even want to give it to him because i feel its a waste of time.

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A male reader, attymikepete United States +, writes (23 July 2010):

attymikepete agony auntI think you should have sex with him more. Also try putting your finger in his anus while he is inside of you. That will stop the ejaculation physically.

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A male reader, lastlonger United States +, writes (2 December 2009):

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (12 December 2007):

Be patient dear woman.Rome wasn't built in a day.I suggest he sees a doctor as there may be a complication you are not aware of.Try having non-penetrative sex for a while because if i were him and you stop being sexual,i'd think you are getting it from elsewhere.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007):

Well heres a technique and dont ask how i may know. What your husband can do is that when he feels he is ready to eject, he can still be in you but he should stop and begin or continue to kiss you until the feeling is over and he can start up again. The more he gets use to holding the feeling in, it can last longer and when he does eject in the end, it'll be a lot more pleasing due to the fact he held it in all that time. Intercourse can last up to an hour or more if he uses this technique. Talk to him and give it a try. Its a pretty good way without using anything artificial. Good luck!

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