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writes:My girlfriend is very upset. There is this lady she has tried to be best friends with for over 4 years now. I say "tried" because all this lady does is use her to watch her kids or do some labor around the house or lately borrow money from. I hate this lady and don't understand why my girl adores her so much, but she does. Well my girl got pooed on again by her friend tonight and she is very upset this time. She also has a bunch of other things on her at the same time thats making it worse. Now, my girls emotions are more like a guys. She doesnt cry, she gets angry. And frankly I don't know how to console her. So how do I be there for her when it doesn't seem like she wants any consoling? I'm hoping a woman who has similar emotions will offer help also on how to deal with this and maybe some future problems from a lady who doesnt let her emotions out like her.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (11 May 2009):
 Let her know that you will be there for her if she needs you, but other than that you can't really do anything. If she handles situations without emotion then its just her way of dealing with it. So be patient and if she needs you then welcome her with open arms. X
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