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13-15,
anonymous
writes:i've known my friend for about 4 years and he hasnt had a girlfriend in this whole time i've known him. he's always saying how he doesnt want a girlfriend and he just wants sex (which i find kind of shallow) but i dont believe that. i dont think hes ever been in love or had a girlfriend and he says he just wants sex because no girl has ever really been interested in him if you know what i mean? i think by him saying he doesnt want a girlfriend he thinks it works as an excuse for the fact he CANT get one? how can i help him get a girlfriend?
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reader, missaqua777 +, writes (1 February 2008):
 He's most probably longing for a girlfriend, he probably is just covering it up because he feels embarrassed about it i think it's because hes quite a deep person and is still looking for the right girl. Me personally, i am like this ive never had a bf, ive had quite a few people interested in me but i've never felt the same about them however all the crushes i have ever had have been really deep but they've never felt the same-so the game is difficult. i would advise that you guys go out more, wherever you go there will be girls on buses, trains, particularly in shopping malls lol-every girl has shopping as a hobby!:) what's stopping him finding his dream girl there, i know you're guys but you can still find stuff to do in a shopping mall if not shopping. And maybe he has a problem communicating with girls, so notice if any girls have their eye on him and encourage him to smile and make eye contact, well known as one of the simplest but most effective way of flirting. I think you're spot on about your friend and you obviously know him as a mate should, you're doing the right thing encouraging him and hes lucky to have a mate like you, bet it'll happen sooner than you think! x
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (1 February 2008):
 Making friends with girls would be a good start! Your friend probably hasn't met a girl he likes, yet, and there's no hurry. If you know girls, arrange days out for all of you together, like going skating, cinema, bowling... introduce them without any obvious intention and see if anything happens after a few times of going out as a group.
I met my husband through a friend! He'd never been in love before, and he was a good ten years older than your friend!
Good luck!
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