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writes:Hello Dearcupid!I am 14 and just wandering why i find it so difficult to have friend guys, yet boyfriends are fine.I don't know how to talk to them like an actual friend, about things i would talk about with girlfriends. How and why?? Any tips, pleaseeeeeee xx Reply to this Question
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (1 November 2007):
 okay simple enough you just need to be yourself. guy friends are simple, theyre kind and supportive and once u no them well enough they are always there for you. you just need to find decent good guys. not ones that take the mickey. i have a lot of male friends and it seems easier to have them than girlfriends. it is simple i can promise you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): I'm sort of the opposite of you. Most of my friends are guys. The advice that I would give you is just relax, and be yourself. They don't care if you love chick flicks, and talking on the phone, as long as you can be open and honest with them. And, there's a plus side for them to having you around--an ear to bounce off of when they have problems they don't want to talk to some of their guy friends about. Believe it or not, guys can be as emotional if not more so than women. And you can still flirt, and have fun, it's just not sexual. Hit the movies with a group, offer to play poker--its actually really fun--or just whatever. All you have to do is relax and be yourself, it's no different than having girlfriends. promise.
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