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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi,I'm 33 and my friend who we have been for morethan3 months is 59. He has been seperated for 15 years but legally has not been divorced.We like eachother alot and had sex for several times. Once I got pregnant and he helped me through.I really want to know how to make this relationship stronger and make him stay with me? What should I do to make him get closer and dependent to me more? Can you please help me?Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2012): How do you mean helped you through ? Did you have the baby or an abortion? I have the feeling it was the latter, and if he supported you through the abortion, who idea was that?
You cannot make anyone dependant on you, though there are couples who do become interdependent on each other . I think you need to look at why hasn't he divorced his wife after 15years, that to me seems quite odd. Would also suggest he either hasn't divorced her for 1 that he can use it as an excuse not to get to involved with anyone else. 2. That he's not over his wife.
If he's not fawning over you at this stage, as we're in the honeymoon period here, I am sorry to have to say he never will be, and you would be best moving on and finding someone who wants you as you want them.
Good luck.
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