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writes:I've been with my lesbian lover for twenty years. Her oldest brother has lived with us off and on for several of those years. Now I'm finding that while she has rebuffed all my overtures at physical attention, for the last year or three, I'm having to deal with his attraction to me, and my attraction to him has become very strong. What should I do??? Our son has grown up. We own the house together. It's a real fix!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): well, you're going to have to ask yourself, do you love her? are you IN love with her?
is doing something with this attraction to him worth a break up with a partner of twenty years?
i know its a difficult situation, but you have to do what you think is right, what you need to do for you.
what will make you happy?
are you unhappy with her? think of your son too, there is more in this little fix then just you, just be careful because if down the line you decide you made a mistake, things like this are difficult to fix again.
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