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writes:I dated this girl for about 4 months not long I know we are both in college we broke up obviously I dated other girls and what not and I was happy, plus I cheated on her. Yes it was wrong and yes I felt like shit after. Anyways, we end up getting back together and dating for a little over a half year. That is long for me I have a shit or get off the pot policy with dating, why waste your or my time if it isn't going to work. Anyways I broke up with her because like I said I cheated, I stopped though the last half part of our relationship. She would do anything for me and I just couldn't offer her the same things she was offering me and it wasn't fair to her. So I called it off, but now all I can think about is if I made the right decision. My friends like her but say I'm better off single and I'm more fun now. So... my question is if she said she loved me and wanted me to marry her should I feel hurt that she won't talk to me now, I thought we ended on good terms but she won't talk. And recently I've heard a story from one friend that she said she was happy we broke up, which I think is no way true (I'm not in denial, I can find other girls) its just like if that really is true and she can't talk to me now and she starts acting weird and acting out, do I have a right to be mad? How can I get over her? I really did like her, I don't know what love is I've been in a lot of relationships but I honestly think I did love her, yes even though I cheated. Anyways how do I get over her!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): You cheated on her. You didn't love her. You admit she was head over heels for you and wanted to marry you. You got dependent on that attention. Now that she is finally over you, and doesn't talk to you. You lose that ego boost you had. Because before you knew at anytime if you wanted her back you could have her. Now you aren't so sure. You're a jerk. Let this woman move on and be happy. The moment she starts talking to you or takes you back, you will get bored with her and find some excuse to end it. That's what you did all the previous times isn't it?
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reader, Big T203 +, writes (17 October 2010):
I think its time to man up and get over it. People never seem to realize that when they break a relationship up enough times and their counterpart gets fed up its over. The only reason you went back to her is because she was available. But now that she see's the light and wants nothing to do with you the shoes on the other foot now you cant take it.You said it your self your having more fun single , you cheated on her and no you do not have the right to mad. with everything time will heal all.
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