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How should I tell my gay friend that I'm not into him?

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Question - (9 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Alright well im only borrowing my lil sisters account for this one thing. there is a gay guy at my school. were friends and all but i think he really wants to be more because of the way his eyes get when he looks at me. i dont want to hurt him but i want him to know that im definently not into him at all. how should i tell?

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A female reader, notwithme731 United States +, writes (10 August 2010):

I don't think any of you understand... this question was asked by a male. Why is it that you think he likes you? Has he TRIED anything other than eye-f^&king you? Until he verbally initiates something, I wouldn't worry. I take it you're straight. You look at girls, don't you? Even if the girl you were checking out was a lesbian, you could still look. I'm sure he knows you're not gay. Don't fret. He's not gonna stick it up your @$$ when you're not paying attention. He may not even like you. It may all be in your head.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010):

well pass on the advice then

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010):

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Thank you all. but that advice is only good for my sister. i am borrowing heraccount for this question. its her older brother.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2010):

k_c100 agony auntI really dont understand this - your friend is gay! And to think a guy is into you because of his eyes is a bit strange, you cannot go around thinking every guy that looks at you a bit differently wants a relationship with you surely?

If he's gay then I am pretty sure he is not into you and you might just be seeing things, this is probably just in your head and it is best not to say anything otherwise you will ruin your friendship.

He is interested in men, not women so I dont think you have anything to worry about.

I hope this helps and good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010):

Darling he's gay, It would be ridiculous if you went' I only like you as a friend' cos all he'd say is, so do i silly i'm gay you know that! Just get over it, I doubt he wants to be more than friends.

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