A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Normally, you do the 'hard work' yourself and get a girl eventually.My mum works at a school, and she works with a girl called Amy. At first I thought 'Mum, don't try and find me a girlfriend, that's not cool'. Then I looked at her Facebook page. She is hot! She's currently single, she's 23.We have been exchanging messages, she says she not looking for love at the moment (but don't all girls say that when they secretly are?!).It's my birthday on Sunday, and I am thinking of messaging her to ask her if she'd like to come over for a drink.How do you think I should play it?
View related questions:
facebook Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, PsILoveYou +, writes (25 June 2010):
 Maybe you should give her your handphone number, tell her plans might change because you are busy. But that includes telling her a teeny weeny lie, I mean it's ok if you really are busy, but I hate telling lies to my loved ones . Congrats on England! You should watch World Cup together! It might make your relationship closer.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhy am I not getting these answers?
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, I haven't - whenever I mention going for a drink, she doesn't say anything about it!
She's watching England in the World Cup - hoperfully they'll get through tomorrow, then we can watch the next game together!
...............................
A
female
reader, PsILoveYou +, writes (21 June 2010):
Congrats on the drink! Have you gone out with her yet? How did it go?Love always start like this, go out, have a drink,and then get to know each other more,so don't worry!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAren't I a numnuts!
I hadn't checked my Facebook since Friday, and checked it this morning to see a message from her asking about yesterday and saying she would come!
I have asked her out for a drink though. Don't know when!
Do you think she was just saying she isn't looking for love at the moment to get me to 'work on her' or is that a genuine statement?
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShall I give her my number, then she can text me if she's coming?
...............................
A
female
reader, PsILoveYou +, writes (8 June 2010):
Happy Birthday! Play it cool,like you have evrything under control. Maybe talk to her and show that you care before someone gets her!
...............................
|
