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writes: Hi. This question is to help a best friend of mine who is a girl. She has a boyfriend who she know longer wants to go out with. But she is to scared to finish him. She has the type of boyfriend that checks her text messages and doesn't like her going out with her friends so basicly he doesn't trust her. I know it is tight to finish someone and i hear he really likes her or even loves her which is kind of freaking her out. But its also not fair on her to keep going out with him if she doesn't want to. How can i help her?
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reader, shania  +, writes (26 February 2006):
 I think your friend should give it to her boyfriend straight.The longer it goes on the harder it will become,she is not doing herself any favours here.....her fella sounds controlling and insecure....if your friend really wants to end it then she should tell him its over and walk away....even if he rants and raves or starts begging her for another chance....she has got to do it.Good luck.
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reader, wookiee's girlfriend +, writes (25 February 2006):
 if she doesn't want to go out with him then she should break it off. it isn't pleasent to either person but it has to be done sometimes. if she is freaked by his almost stalker-like behavior then it is a good reason to break it off
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