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How much help is too much help?

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Question - (29 December 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2011)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

A guy I met online is coming to town and he's asked me to help him rent a bedsit so I did. The thing is the bedsit is in bad shape and there is basically nothing habitable about it. He'll be arriving late on Saturday ( no shops will be open on Sunday in that neighbourhood and no bars or cafes where breakfast will be served are available in that neighbourhood. Should I at least leave a kettle and tea/coffee in the bedsit? I feel like helping him and I know he's working on a budget. We're just friends now.

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A female reader, XOLoveOX United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2011):

No Problem Glad To Help xoxoxo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011):

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thank you all, this is exactly what I decided to do. After all, no one can live without a kettle ;)

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A female reader, Claraw1 Australia +, writes (30 December 2011):

Claraw1 agony auntIn this case I would at least have a kettle, toaster, loaf of bread and some marg/butter and spread there for him to use. It's a nice gesture and helpful for a friend to do that.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (30 December 2011):

Aunty BimBim agony auntIf you have a spare kettle and toaster, yes, leave one there for his use, and some tea bags and maybe a loaf of bread as well.

It would be a nice, welcoming, gesture.

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A female reader, XOLoveOX United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2011):

Remember it always pays to be nice I suggest you do what you think is right?

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