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How long should I wait to kiss my boyfriend?

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Question - (24 April 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2013)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

how long should i wait to kiss my bf

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A male reader, almorr United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2013):

You should not wait too long for you to kiss your boyfriend. When I was dating my girlfriend I kissed her on the cheek the first night we were on a date, from then on I kissed her on the lips, as time went on our kissing got gradually longer and more passionate, by 2 months of dating I was kissing her so much that the kisses lasted as long as half a hour or so, we were so much in love. So the answer is that you should kiss your boyfriend as soon as you feel that the time is right, if you don't feel that way, perhaps both of you have as they say "not hit it off", in that case, look for a new boyfriend.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):


You should take as long as you need until it feels right. But like mentioned before things may become uncomfortable if left for too long in the relationship. But remember never let anyone pressure you into something you dont want to do :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

You should just wait for the right moment.

My boyfriend didn't kiss me until we were dating for a bit over a month.

But when we finally kissed the moment was perfect.

Hope this helped :)

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A female reader, sarahisgreat123 United States +, writes (25 April 2008):

I agree kiss him at the right moment... But also dont over think it and spend so much time waiting nervously because my friends did that and it made their relationship really awkward... After your first or second kiss it makes the relationship much more open and comfortable... Dont wait to long or you guys will be awkward!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

I wouldn't wait too long. I dated a guy once who hadn't kissed me after we had been dating for two weeks and it made me feel like he wasn't really into me so i ended up breaking up with him even though he was my best friend before all that. unless your showing in other ways that you care (i.e. hugs, notes, holding hands, random surprises), then I wouldn't wait more than two weeks. Or if your feeling uncomfortable making the big move then talk to him about it, let him know. He should understand.

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A female reader, Light Australia +, writes (24 April 2008):

Light agony aunt

When the time feels right for you to kiss him then kiss him...

I don't believe in the story's that say 'kiss him on your second date'.

Also you don't want to waste your time later on and finding out that he is a terrible kisser....

lol anyway, all the best.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

As soon as it feels right! You'll know when :)

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