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I miss my wife. I just do not know what to do!

Q.   My wife has told me that she wants to separate and get a divorce. This came after many years of emotional abuse from my bipolar disorder. This is now no longer a problem due to accepting Jesus back into my heart and medication. During our last ...

A.   28 April 2008:  You must let go and let GOD - Leave it in God's hands, just let go.. If it was ment to be then it's yours, you know the old saying..... Just remember that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.... What you do now has a great impact on how she th... (read in full...)

How do I dump the trouble women while keeping one or two lookers on the side for sex and still stay with me girlfriend?

Q.   My love-life has been pretty hectic lately and I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with this truly wonderful, sweet girl for the past seven years. We get along great, do all sorts of fun things together and really care about each other. ...

A.   28 April 2008:  hahaha Well I would like to say that it's great that you can be honest and let what you have mentioned.... However you should be just as honest with your girlfriend and tell her that she sucks in sex (not in those exact words, she might get hu... (read in full...)

I'm scared for me and my girlfriend, can you help, what should I do?

Q.   Last December, I met this lady in a bar. We became friends and eventually started a relationship. A month ago, she disappeared without a trace. I figured she'd run off with someone else. Then two weeks ago, I got a letter from her saying that she ...

A.   28 April 2008: Wow your in a bit of a situation there aint ya, Why is she on the run? Why does she have to run away if she doesn't want the prince? Why doesn't she just tell the prince that she doesn't want him? May be there is more than to what she is ... (read in full...)

Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?

Q.   I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she ...

A.   28 April 2008: Mr. Worry - I feel like shaking you sometimes lol....;p Chill, the most important thing is believe what you think is true about yourself, be honest even if it hurts.] - Your girlfriend has chosen to be with you not to have sex, and do all that ... (read in full...)

Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?

Q.   I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she ...

A.   27 April 2008: Hey Mr. Worry Sorry I couldn't reply have been sick with the flue yuck!!!! When you mention that you have asked your girlfriend "why me? Her answer is the truth she id telling you the truth, because my husband askd me the same thing, I said ex... (read in full...)

Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?

Q.   Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...

A.   26 April 2008:  Do you and your husband have any children? If so does he do this infront of them. I am against any man/women being physically abusive, it should never lead to that in a marriage. However you can take control of the situation, just leave... (read in full...)

Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?

Q.   I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she ...

A.   25 April 2008:  If my husband didn't do what I wanted, i would firstly ask hime why not? Then even if he explains his reasons, I wouldn't believe him, I would think that I'm not good enough, fat, or put him off, hey that's just me, may be diffrent for other gi... (read in full...)

Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?

Q.   I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she ...

A.   25 April 2008:  Mr. Worry Why cann't you do that? What is the real reason? That is what i would ask my husband? Look deep down and reflect about it, you may not get the answer to the reason yet it may take time, what is the real reason to why you cant ... (read in full...)

I wouldn't believe it was true even if she did say she likes me. What can I do about my self confidence?

Q.   Hello! Ok first off, i dont know whats wrong with me, ive asked for help on this site alot of times, for the same reason, but i still cant bring myself to do it. basicly theres a girl i really like, ive known her for a while now and we are b...

A.   25 April 2008:  You need to be yourself, if she likes you then she does, if she doesn't like you then she doesn't....... If it helps, may be write your feelings about her down on paper; Tell her that she is stunning inside out, Tell her that she deserve... (read in full...)

I married the wrong woman and I'm a mess. Is there any hope?

Q.   I'm a 32 year old male, and I'm so unhappy in my marriage anymore. I married the wrong woman. I did. This lady has issues from her past that I thought I could handle, and I have for years. She was raped as a child, molested too (by strangers). ...

A.   25 April 2008:  First of all I have to say that I am so proud of you for doing and being the Husband and Father you are today, you really have not only changed your Daughters lives but you are and will change your wifes. Here the problem with her - this women r... (read in full...)

How long should I wait to kiss my boyfriend?

Q.   how long should i wait to kiss my bf...

A.   24 April 2008:  When the time feels right for you to kiss him then kiss him... I don't believe in the story's that say 'kiss him on your second date'. Also you don't want to waste your time later on and finding out that he is a terrible kisser.... l... (read in full...)

How do I pull myself out of this black hole?

Q.   I've always been such a strong and independant person. But the break up of a relationship in December seemed to start the beginning of a downward depression cycle. My ex boyfriend and I lived together, and I left the house we shared to move...

A.   24 April 2008:  Stay positive, stay focused and listen to the advice of the first person who told you to go and swim/cycle...... It does work...... All the best... (read in full...)

I'm headed for a nervous breakdown because I can't make a decision about my relationship! She has issues from her past.

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 months. We both left or marriages for each other. We fell in love and thought we were perfect for each other - soulmates. She broke up with me 3 or 4 months later. She gave me several reasons such ...

A.   24 April 2008:  Run for your life and don't look back, she is only using you for her emotional needs...... Sounds like to me she is still inlove with her husband as well as you, however she does not want to get a divorce.... This women has issues, and need... (read in full...)

I want to marry him but he has a child and I come from a traditional background. What do you think?

Q.   I'm 21 and absolutely in love with a man whose 30. He already has a 4 year old from a previous relationship. I know for a fact he is ready to marry me. I want to marry him as well, but one thing keeps me from saying "yes", and that is the fact ...

A.   24 April 2008:  Well said Brooke I agree....... (read in full...)

Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?

Q.   I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she ...

A.   24 April 2008: Well said girls I agree.... I am exactly like this girl you have described however I have been married faithfully to my husbvand for almost 9 years, and I like my man to take full control, and hit me with moves (not abuse hit) that I don't exp... (read in full...)

I have a massive crush on my college tutor! I'm not looking for a way out of my marriage though.

Q.   I'm a mature student and have a massive crush on my tutor at college. He's about 10 years older than me if that, as far as I know he's still single, I'm married though, I've been unhappy with my husband for at least 18 months. I'm not just l...

A.   24 April 2008:  Ok before you need to do anything with the college tutor, you need to fix the root first... The reason why I say this is because before you jump onto anythig new you must get rid of the old the right way, you need to find out the reasons why ... (read in full...)

We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?

Q.   I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he ...

A.   24 April 2008:  This guy is married, he has to be other wise why would he say that he wants to be with his ex - his full of it really..... Darling I think you should forget about this guy, because you deserve the best not third best...... Stay away from pe... (read in full...)

I have reoccurring dreams about a girl I haven't seen in 8 years and never bothered about, why?

Q.   In the last year I have had about 3/4 dreams about a girl I haven't even seen in 8 years. Most recently I had one last night that she was at this party I went to recently and we ended up kissing, and I felt bad when I woke up because I have a ...

A.   24 April 2008: Hi Their, Great dream WOW - you got lots to do.... Well it's like this ok.... Example One day you pass this street that you've past 1000 times before but suddenly in this street you notice a beautiful tree, and your shocked, not just about... (read in full...)

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