How long should I wait before texting?

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Question - (3 February 2009)

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A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey i recently met this girl at my school only for 2 day pretty much and yeah i got her number like after school like at 3pm when do you guys suggest it be good time to text her coz i dont wanna text to early n like seem desperate or i got nuthing else better to do ay shuld i text her tonight?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009):

Yeah the waiting game is 3 days...after that it means you are not intrested...so text her after 2days

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009):

just text her if you want and dont text her if you dnt feel like it

if you 'play hard to get' or 'not desperate' or anything it can be reeeally annoying

im a girl and id just rather guys were straight up and didnt like wait or anything to not seem desperate cauz waiting is annoying.. and also girls like to feel loved and that guys are 'desperate' for them anyway :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009):

just text her if you want and dont text her if you dnt feel like it

if you 'play hard to get' or 'not desperate' or anything it can be reeeally annoying

im a girl and id just rather guys were straight up and didnt like wait or anything to not seem desperate cauz waiting is annoying

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009):

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oh true cheers ay can you please explain more about this waiting game thing coz i hardly know her i dont know if she really likes me or not so you think just to start with txt whenever i want or wait at least a day coz i see her like in my first class every morning 'cept thurs and fridays

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A male reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (3 February 2009):

There is nothing wrong with texting her when you got home, just saying hi, and checking she has your number. Just because you have her number doesn't mean you have to ask her out the same day. Just send her a nice friendly text and then it's up to her to text back and ask us when she should text you. ha ha.

Have fun, good luck

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A female reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (3 February 2009):

If you want to play the waiting game I think the general waiting period is three days.

But if you really like her I would forget about playing games and just send it when you want to. When you really like someone you won't think they're desperate if they message you straight away, you'll be pretty damn happy about it!

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