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How is it that I still haven't gotten pregnant? Am I just lucky? Or is there a problem that will affect my getting pregnant in the future?

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Question - (3 August 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, *eeks writes:

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years. i am 20 and he is 21. we have been having unprotected sex at least 4 times a week for over a year and he does ejaculate into me almost everytime. i was on birth control when we first started dating but got off because of the problems it was causing me to have. i am also allergic to latex so we were never big condom users to begin with. he is the only guy i have ever slept with but i was not his first so we both went and got tested (i got tested just to ease his mind) before we starting having sex and we were both clean. i have not gotten pregnant once during our whole relationship. we are not trying to get pregnant but we have talked about it and decided since we both have stable jobs, make decent money, he owns the house we live in (family home left to him) and even though we are young we would see a baby as a blessing because we love each other and can afford a child. but i have had problems with my ovaries since i was 12 mostly cysts that have covered both ovaries. they usually last 3-4 months before going away and about 2 months after they go away they have come back. could this have something to do with the reason i havent gotten pregnant and will it effect my getting pregnant in the future or have i just gotten lucky?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2012):

why are you both having unprotected sex if you are not trying to have a baby? I dont think its a good idea as you are both still very young and you have to live your own life first. it might not be down to the ovarian cysts, I know a girl who use the ''withdrawal method'' (NOT an effective method of preventing pregnancy!) with numerous guys for years, she has just had a baby a few months ago and it was not planned. she also thought there was something wrong with her that she did not get pregnant for so long but apparently this was not the case. I suggest you two decide what your future plans are before your future decides itself for you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2012):

that could be a problem but before we could start guessing.. I suggest u visit a gynae... Just to check and make sure

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