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writes: hihow do i kiss?i havent got a clue how to do it, i wanna now how to just normally kiss like a peck and how do you kiss with tongues?i need to know cos i really wanna kiss my boyfriend and i am really ready i just dont know how?please help!thank you very much everyone Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): take it slow, and dont feel afraid.
the more tense you feel, the less pleasurable its gonna be.
for girls - when u SLOWLY start kissing, with tongues,
run your fingers through his hair, or its best to put ur hans on his chest, neck, or cheek.
this will make him more excited.
for guys - run your hands gently around her upper waist,
making her also excited, or run your fingers through her hair, and hold her hand.
this sets the scene perfectly !
so just take it easy, and dont do things u dnt wanna!
such as going further, never be forced by the boy.
if he tries to force you, jog him on.
girls, i hope this helps.
i was scared on my first kiss.
xxx
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): First, gaze deeply into your partner's eyes. Then, get nearer (better if the guy acts first). For girls look at the guys lips and then deep into his eyes and smile. When he comes near your lips, stop smiling, you dont want him kissing your teeth! Start of with your mouth closed and then slowly open our mouth(not too big) and next leading to a french kiss if you feel like it. Use your hands. Guys, stroke her face softly and then her shoulders down to her waist. Girls, put your hand through his hair and then his face and then chest. Bring your best feeling towards that person out to feel the sparks in the kiss.Good luck! Hope this helps
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): well dude seriously i kissed a gilr one time and it was great but when u start kissing u get his feeling inside telling u how to do it your way which the girl knows that its you and your kiss explain use and everything so just make it count and dont bump nosie just tilit your head and touch her lips softly but not to fast
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): i kissed my bf, and its not that it wasnt a good kiss,( but something just didnt feel right, and i just sorta expected there to be at least a little spark or something...and there wasnt, and my friends r telling me it could be cause he's not the right guy for me, but i really want to make it work, cause i really like him.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): Wow, such detail, thanks a whole lot!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): Hello,
One of the most important things when you are lip to lip kissing is to RELAX YOUR LIPS!!!! The only time you should pucker up is if its a quick peck on the cheek. RELAX!!! Seriously. Being tense and all tightened up dowsn't feel great for you and sends the message to him that you aren't into the kissing idea. Also. dont be in a rish to french kiss. i have been dating my boyfriend (he is the 3rd i have had so far-i'm 16) for 5 months and he and i only french kiss at special occasions when we are alone (or pretty much) and its a special moment. we didn't kiss till our 3rd week and we didn't french kiss, oh gosh, till ike our 2nd month. and WE STILL LOVE EACHOTHER!!! seriously. Savoring the kiss and making it special helps in the long run because kissing still means something even a year down the road. if you kiss to much, like every minute, it takes the feeling away and becomes a habbit for the two of you instead of something special.
Good Luck,
KK
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): well really you just go with it when the moments rite tilt your head and get on wit it but be confident because when ya nervouse it wownt be as much fun && there isnt a rite or rong way to do it ! wen the moments rite just go fo it !
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): wow i didnt htink they had a website like this. thanks all
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): Let the guy always take the lead, unless you really wanna. Follow what he does and sometimes it's better to go slow at first then rush into it all at once. Don't use too much tongue, a mouth full of saliva is not nice. Bleugh. Biting guys lips turns them on if you don't bite it off, but wouldn't go that far if it's your first kiss. Use your hands too, whether they're rubbing his neck or just pulling him in to deeper the kiss?? Good luck babes ^^ 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): Let the guy always take the lead, unless you really wanna. Follow what he does and sometimes it's better to go slow at first then rush into it all at once. Don't use too much tongue, a mouth full of saliva is not nice. Bleugh. Biting guys lips turns them on if you don't bite it off, but wouldn't go that far if it's your first kiss. Use your hands too, whether they're rubbing his neck or just pulling him in to deeper the kiss?? Good luck babes ^^ 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): just kiss with your mouth closedthen after a few seconds open your mouththen slowly put ur tongue into their mouthand just go with the flow
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006): Is the first time you kiss always hard and so you cant remember it that much
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): All you gotta do is move your tongue around.. in there mouth There is NO WRONG way of kissing... Everyone does it differntly after you have kissed your partner for the first to time you will understand how they like to kiss and u willl use that.. etc
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006): as a teenager i kiss a lot of different girls and they all kiss differently but the best kiss i had was at a party i was dancin with a girl when i slowly kissed her on the lips with my mouth closed then i waited for a few seconds and kissed her with my mouth open and slip your tongue inside and just go with it !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2006): Im the same i really want to kiss my girlfriend but i just dont no how could someone please tell me
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): when you put your toung in his mouth make shure it dont go down his throught.yust go on get in to it .you will be fine.to make him exsited carryonfor at least 2 and ahalf minets or naby longer.
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reader, Jayhva112 +, writes (18 January 2006):
You do need to relax. Everything will come to you naturally. Practice makes perfect! It's honestly as simple as that. Same goes for sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): Okay, first off, you just need to relax. Trust me, at first you're going to feel like you don't know what you're doing, but you kinda just have to go with the flow. Watch some movies with great kissing scenes. Basically, just a peck, is just that. You can handle that, it's how you kiss family. If you want like a soap opera kiss where there is a lot of passion but no tounge you just basically put his upper or bottom lip in between yours and kinda suck and pull away. Suck very lightly, more of a massage. If you wanna tounge kiss you just do the soap opera kiss and every so often slip your tounge in his mouth an massage his tounge gently with yours.
There are guys who like to shove their tongue down your throat, I for one don't like that. It may be your thing, who knows. But if it happens and you don't like it, just pull away suductively and begin to kiss him how you want to be kissed. He'll get the point.
The most important thing...RELAX!!
Hope this helps!
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