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writes: heyai am 16 and i want to know how i know if my 16 year old boyfriend has an erection around me. if we hug or kiss or something how do i know if he has an erection without asking him cos i dont really wanna ask him ha ha. is there any signs like what do boys do, do they have a different expresion on their face or not?please answer my questions
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reader, malaysianfeet +, writes (24 January 2006):
If you are ready for the consequences, then touch him. At this age, he'll definitely have one. Its hormones. Pure and simple. When you enjoy wasting time at this age in all this exploration; then you havent wasted time at all.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (23 January 2006):
 Sweetheart, you will know. By the expression on his face, by the heavy breathing and by the constant need to adjust his pants. try not do get to heavy whilst at the gym, or in the swimming pool 'cos then not only you will know he has an erection, the whole world will too!
Have fun but be safe. x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 January 2006):
 If you don't know then you are much too young and innocent to even BE GIVING someone an erection. Go play with your Barbies for a few more years dear.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 January 2006):
 All of the answers below are true. In addition, if your "making out" he will press his pelvis against yours to put pressure on it. Definately have a "I love you" look in his eyes. Do be careful though, you DO NOT want to rub or encourage this as his harmones will get out of control. Unless you really are ready and then bring protection in case he doesn't.
Sincerely
Ed
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reader, mystify +, writes (18 January 2006):
 thier breathing gets heavier which can really show on there face or in there voice esp when they try hide it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2006): When I my gf knows I am turned on, she rubs my crotch and grins. So yeah... I adjust my pants...
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (18 January 2006):
 He'll shift around uncomfortably because his pants will start feeling tight. As Aunty B mentioned, he'll have a bulge in his pants. If you're hugging him, you might even feel it poking into you.
Just be forewarned that, if you give it a feel as some of the others suggested, this could lead to other things. Make sure that you're ready for the next step so that you don't end up in an uncomfortable situation.
Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): Haha, yep, I'm definately with him on this one. Just start rubbing his leg then gently move up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): Give it a feel when you're kissing...he won't mind, trust me!
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reader, aunty butterfly +, writes (17 January 2006):
 hi,
i find it a bit confusing that you haven't just looked down my love,as it's very clear if he has or not his trousers suddenly get smaller and there is a bulge that he didn't have before,and don't tell me you daren't look,he's your boyfriend and you are old enough.As for an expression on his face?he probably would have the biggest grin on his face from ear to ear! good luck xAunty Bx
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