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*sInLimbo
writes:How to get over FWB?I have fallen for him, but I really don't want to. Not just because it's torturing me, but because there's no way I'd ever want a serious commitment with him.How do I go back to being friends and be ok with it when I work with him at least 3x a week (neither can quit the job). Although working with him has been no problem, it hasn't effected our work at all. But we communicate quite often (sometimes I feel he's using work as an excuse to keep in touch as well).I have come to the point I am thinking about him every second of the day, I feel sick and I've been crying for three days now. I honestly don't want a relationship with him, but I really want to be friends with him again, so how do I do that, but please without having to tell him how I feel!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): if you sleep with people that you don't think are relationship material, you are likely to get burned like this.
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 Time helps more than anything. Seeing them in casual group settings and working thru the feelings helps too. Basically you have to just fake it until you get there. The more casual "friend" interactions you have the easier it gets.
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