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How do you deal with relatives that are so cruel and jealous?

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Question - (23 February 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2013)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been reading recent posts and I couldn't help but wonder they are soo many relatives out there,who would do anything to bring the morale of their own down,I thought I may be among the few realised their many..I would really like if some of you who have been thru this and have faced the wrath of jealous relatives share your experiences here and how you tackled it? Let me quickly share mine,my cousins and my aunt have always been very envious if my family or anything we achieve,they'l always find ways to put us down and bother us in all possible ways..regarding financial matters or targetting our character!I put up a fight but when realised its of no use I decided not to talk!how did you guys deal with aunts and cousins of this crazy nature?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2013):

I know exactly what you are saying its my siblings and my other family on my father side .My sister on my father side she doesn't speak to me because I have moved on with my life I don't do the things I use to do living a wild life style. My siblings from my mother they hate the fact that I like nice things I work hard so there for my home was beautiful I let them come to my house their kids walk on my furniture ,write it,eat their snacks leave the paper on the floor the whole nine yards. But I now stay away from everybody just go to work and come lock my doors and don't answer the phone it's sad but peace is my happiness now.

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A female reader, sneha09 India +, writes (24 February 2013):

sneha09 agony auntI just want to tell you relax, the only way you can handle is just avoid them and be happy.If they are complaining to you ,just say you don't want to hear. If they are complaining to someone else,do not try to clarify.Don't share anything and thats it,it will take time but gradually it will be fine.

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