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writes:Hey guys:) My boyfriends a senior this year and I'm not. I feel like he doesn't have room in his oh so amazing senior life for me. We've been very very close and had a good no-fighting relationship. I don't wanna see all that go down hill. He is slowly pushing me away ,growing more distant and I wish he could want me and love me the same as before. How can I do that? I don't think talking to him works very well. But I just need some advice! Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 August 2012):
 sweetie this has NOTHING to do with him being a senior...
you will learn that when someone (man or woman) does not want a relationship but they are too lazy to leave it, they just coast along letting the other person do all the work.
stop calling him
stop texting him
stop making plans with him
act like he is out of your life
then start counting the days till he contacts you
you may write him long long letters (that you do not send)
you may journal
you may cry
you may wail and eat ice cream and be obsessive about him for SIX weeks...
then get back to me.... and we can help you figure out how to live your life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012): I don't see what you've got to lose in trying to talk to him about it, there has to be even a slightly better chance to getting this problem out in the open with him, than saying nothing at all and letting him drift away from you.
If that attempt doesn't work, then at least you can say you tried. But then you're going to have to accept it I guess, and put it down to life experience - these things happen sometimes in life.
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reader, lOvex3Jenny  +, writes (22 August 2012):
 I'm sorry to say this but, if your own boyfriend is not even willing to talk about relationship problems with you and is slowly drifting away from you then I'm sorry but there's nothing much you can do. It's obvious, he's kind of lost interest or maybe it's the fact that he's a senior. I'm in my senior year of high school and it's definitely not "oh so amazing" to be a senior, we're constantly busy, this is our final year. Of course we have to focus on school, not everything is about you, he has a future he wants to pursue. Also, you're only in high school, nothing truly ever really lasts in high school, you'll have way more opportunities in the future but for now I suggest studying should be your main priority.
Then again, I might be wrong so my suggestion would be to talk to him, if he doesn't care then dump his ass. Make him want you, you shouldn't have to continuously chase after your own boyfriend. Considering this is a high school situation, you might be thinking having sex with him would trigger some sort of romantic feelings towards you, technically no it doesn't help. Don't lose your virginity to just any guy, he might seem special to you now, but if he continues to treat you this way then giving him your body wouldn't be fair.
Please choose wisely, you're only in high school, besides I bet you can do so much better than this guy. Hope this helps, good luck :)
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