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writes:My girl recently said that she would like to have a threesome and wants to try it with another girl, she even said that she would love to watch another girl give me oral. I am happy to do this but i dont know where to start. we have looked on dating site and the like but when it comes to finding someone in the real world we have no idea how to find someone to join us. does anyone have any advice on how to tell if a girl would be interested and the best ways to approach the subject. Should we be straight up and ask if she is interested? get my girl to kiss her and see if she responds? i am at a loss on what to do and with this oppertunity within reach i dont want to let it slip away. any advice would be greatly appreciatedThanks
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (15 July 2009):
There is more than one very good book on this topic, but try "Threesome" by Lori Gammon. It's got rock solid advice, and 99% of it you'll have never considered, yet totally understand after reading. Finding a woman to bring into your bed is not as hard as you might think, but there are dozens of ways to blow it before she's in the bed...
Swinger’s sites and mags are going to likely prove worthless. Your amongst hundreds (or thousands) of couples looking for the 'unicorn'... the odds of you finding a single, cute and adventurous woman under your nose is much higher than you might think – especially if she can tell that the two of you are in a loving relationship.
Buy the book, read it aloud in bed… it’s both educational and hot…!
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reader, Jmbob83 +, writes (18 August 2008):
Jmbob83 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Frank. i will take a look at those sites and will have a look into local swinger places. i understand about any friends even though i am not particularly jealous i can see where complications can arise from that. i can see the ease of finding someone online or through a group but was curious of the ways to tell if a girl would be up for it.
Cupidguy thanks for your concerns i feel that our relationship is great i love her and we have a good sex life. the way i look at it is like the 3rd party is like an interactive sex toy, like a vibrator we can both get pleasure from. we have talked about this in depth and my girl is bi-curious and wants to see what it is like, i am happy to let her get this out of her system and she wants me to be involved too.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 August 2008):
 http://www.oysternewspaper.com/
and
http://www.trystmag.com/magazine/magazine.php
The above links are two swinger magazines that I do an advice column for. Their websites offer forums for you to meet other swingers who can offer you tips about meeting single women for threesomes, and you can even contact some people directly, and get their experiences about how they started in the lifestyle.
What I will tell you is not to seek out any current friends for your first threesomes. Although it would be easier, the consequences could be bad and turn you both off from swinging.
Best to find a woman via your local swinger community and take your time to find one that you know is not interested in wrecking your marriage.
-Frank B Kermit
http://www.franktalks.com
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (18 August 2008):
 Before you do anything I think you should read Angel by Katie Price. Threesomes seem like a good idea but when they're over; the relationship is as good as finished too. Some people enjoy it and have many threesomes in their relationship.
When your girlfriend sees you being pleasured by another woman she'll start questioning it. She'll wonder if you're enjoying it more than you do when she performs oral sex for you. She might feel upset and wonder if the other woman is better in bed than she is.
They seem like a good idea, but afterwards most people regret it and their relationships fall apart. Personally I don't think it sounds worth it.
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