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writes:my friend is beautiful and she knows I think this or at least im pretty sure she does. anyway I saw on her formspring that she liked her old bf because he wasn't just interested in her because of her looks and honestly I am the same way. to me its just a bonus, it just so happens that its because of her good looks I was interested in her and I think physical attraction has a lot to do with who we like or approach to talk to.So to start off I love that she makes me smile all the time, she is funny, smart, and listens to the same music I do. All of that is great but what I love the most is how she makes me feel, her little messages the way she looks at me and smiles at me and her laughing at my laugh is the best. I want to tell her but I am afraid that she only loves me as a friend. We have kissed before and snuggled up watching a movie at her house and mine but I heard she has/had a boyfriend that only lasted like 2 weeks or something and for this period I didn't talk to her much.My question is how do I work into a conversation to tell her that she is an incredible person who makes me feel like great and who I could talk to all day. She asked if I liked her and I said when I see you later tonight I will tell you in person and thats because I am comfortable talking to her about everything. So I would prefer to tell her all of this in person... what do you all think?so I guess my last question is what would you say? because I feel like if I can convince her that she really is all of those things to me she might date me? thanks for the advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI meant everything I said 100% she makes my day just when she says good morning or hi. I am glad I met her and can't wait for her to get back home so we can hang out again. thanks for the info I hope everything works out
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reader, FoX15 +, writes (16 March 2011):
i think it should just come out naturally. if you really feel it, say it. i don't think it should be worked into the conversation. But while you're talking and hanging out, you could just look at her and think about what you feel for her, and the words will just follow. If you really do mean it, then don't over think it. It should just come out naturally. Even if the words stumble or you get nervous or you don't think its the right way to say it, just say it. This isn't the movies and nothing has to be perfect, it just has to be honest.
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