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writes:So I've been hooking up with a friend of mine for the past few weeks. We have a fantastic chemistry and I love spending time with him (and yes we spend time together beyond hooking up). He recently got out of a relationship (although not a very committed one, he admits) and isn't looking to get into another one any time soon. That's fine with me but I was curious if anyone has any advice on how I can hint I'm interested in being in a relationship, when the time is right for him? Reply to this Question
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reader, animalzx0x +, writes (23 May 2009):
im in the same pridicament (i cant spell) and im honestly scared shitless to back off like the first guy said, let me know if you've tried it and how it worked out :)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 October 2008):
 It's easier to turn a relationship into a hook-up than the other way around, but here goes nothing. If you already slept together, then he expects that you are FWB, nothing more. The best thing to do is back WAAAAAAY up and avoid him for a while. Let him pursue you. Be very, very busy, and give him a chance to realize that he misses you and your company. Don't agree to meet up with him, especially late at night, that will only be a booty call. Instead wait until it finally dawns on him that he should ask you out on a proper date. Don't be available 24/7 until he finally realizes that you are girlfriend material, and that the whole FWB type of relationship isn't an option for you. If he is interested, he should come around. Good Luck. XXX
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