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writes:okay so we are happy together but i am scared that my parents will disown me because of the fact of the man i am seeing .. we have a 2 year old child together and my family know this they just dont know that the man of my dreams that i love truly is my ex teacher.okay so we have been in a relationship for about 3 1/2 years i was 15 when the whole thing started but that is a different story.anyways .how do i tell my family?how do you think they will react?help please i really need some advice ..our baby girl who is 2 is called ruby
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am not his pupil any more i was his pupil for a year till i turned 16 then i left the school to go to college.
i was his ex pupil
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 October 2010):
It's illegal for a teacher to see a student under the age of 18. Whatever you do, you're in trouble. But they really need to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionif and when i tell them i dont no if is hould say we were in arelationship when i was 15 i may say we started dating when i was 16 instead so they no we are a item but not the whole truth
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso if im decide to tell them then i ddon't really need to say it was at the actual time it was
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 October 2010):
Oh dear, this is bad. I don't think your parents will disown you. I think though that you are in the worst position possible right now.
Simply put, if you tell them, there is a chance they will report him to the police. You were under-age and in school when this started, and that's highly illegal to the point where he can lose his job and be jailed. He's effectively a sex offender. This is a bad situation, and I don't really know what to suggest. At some point, they will find out, and when they do it could go badly wrong.
You have two choices. 1 - You come clean now and hope for the best.
2 - You come clean later and hope for the best.
Whatever happens, they're going to find out. You need to decide whether it's now or later.
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