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writes:My new bf does not spend time with me. He always comes home late and goes to sleep. He does not have time to spend with me. How do I get his interest in me? Do you think oral sex would help to turn him on? Please advise.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (31 July 2011):
 Oh honey... no. You don't use sex to get a guy interested in you. He doesn't want to spend time with you? Why date him? A relationship tends to involve spending time together. Using sex to get him to come home has got to make you feel cheap. Get someone who is interested in you and vice versa.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2011): Don't ever feel the need to give a man sex because you fear losing his interest in you. Yes, oral would most likely turn him on, but would it give him the incentive to spend time with you when there's nothing sexual involved, simply because he enjoys being with his new girlfriend?
I'm guessing your boyfriend works during the day; work can monopolise your time like nothing else and leave you genuinely exhausted by the time you get home, so you both need to set apart at least a few hours each week to spend time with each other (with no external distractions or interruptions). Identify the times you'd both be free and then stick to them. If your boyfriend seems reluctant to meet you halfway on this, perhaps you should consider he may not be the right person for you. Especially in the early stages of a relationship, most couples want to be together as often as possible! It would be a bit concerning if even knowing a workable compromise could be found, he remained unwilling to make the effort. You can only discuss the matter with him and see what he says though :) Good luck and take care x
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reader, JustAGirl.x  +, writes (30 July 2011):
 what kind of relationship is this? your coming to strangers for advice, saying the only way you think this relationship will get more interesting is if you give him a blowjob.
i think this relationship is a waste of both of your times, when you like somebody you dont ignore them and not find them interesting, why are you even together? if oral sex is the only interesting thing between you, your nothing more than friends with benefits, end it.
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