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How do I stop my feelings for this off-limits guy?

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Question - (7 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've known this guy for years and we never used to talk. About 3 months ago, we started getting on really well and are now friends. Recently I've started to develop feelings for him. However, he's in his twenties and engaged - I know his fiancee and she's so nice, and I've been feeling really guilty when I see her for having feelings like this. I know he is totally off-limits, so any advice on how to stop feeling this way as soon as possible?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010):

forget about it. i have the same problem except mine is a little less intemse.but just forgat about him. find another guy. do anything to get over him, seriouly though do it get another guy!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, XxHinkaixX Barbados +, writes (8 May 2010):

XxHinkaixX agony auntI'm in a similar situation right now.

Think about all the flaws this guy has. (Trust me, he has some) and just keep telling yourself you can't be with him...and that hes taken.

It does hurt...but it's worth it in the end...

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (7 May 2010):

raiders agony auntadd some distance between the two....

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