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anonymous
writes:well ive been going out with my boyfriend for a few weeks now, before that we were just sleeping with each other for about 5 months. i think ive always had this attraction to girls. but since being with him i have kissed to girls and enjoyed both. one of the girls is apparently bi sexual and she keeps talking to me about if i might be. she has fancyed my boyfriend for ages. my boyfriend also really wants a threesome with another girl and me. i dont know any other girls i could ask. what should i do. i think i would be up for experimenting in what it coudl be like? what do i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): I think if this is what you want to do then you should go for it. You and you r boyfriend clearly seem willing, the only thing to do is ask this other girl. Maybe you could just be talking to her normally and then just talk about things with you and your boyfriend, and perhaps say that you're thinking of having a threesome and see what her reaction is. If she seems interested then that would probably be a good chance to ask her, if she doesn't then you won't have embarassed yourself by asking straight off.
The only problem that could maybe come of this is if you are still not 100% sure of your sexuality and then you end up enjoying being with a girl more and this could end up making your relationship with your boyfriend difficult.
But if you know this won't happen and you want to experiment then that's great :) enjoy yourself!
Hope I have helped a little!
xx Hope xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 May 2008):
Well if you are enjoying being attracted to and kissing women then there is a good chance that you are bi-sexual. That's kind of obvious. However, since you are still in your teens it may not mean that you will feel this way for ever and ever.
Most of us have some feelings for the same sex. We aren't just gay straight or bi, we are all somewhere on a grand spectrum somewhere in the middle of all of those.
If you and your boy have an open relationship and you are both strong enough and mature enough to let someone else into your bedroom then go for it.
Personally, the jealousy would tear me apart, but if you can deal with it all then go for it.
Good Luck!! xx
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