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writes:am 20 and i feel that i need a gilrfriend but i dont know when and how to start.please advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (17 November 2007):
 On my site, an associate of mine sells an ebook entitled:
The Art of Approaching Women without rejection.
HEre is the link so you can read about it:
http://franktalks.com/content=ShopJosephThundercatLairMatthews
That being said, even the best pick up lines in the world will not make you get over the nervousness. You have to be willing to get shot down and take the hit. Sometimes just being willing to appraoch even if you are nervous is enough to impress a girl and talk to you more.
I find the best appraoches start with you taking an interest in her, and let your curiousity show. It could be about her style, mood, article of clothing, etc...Initially, just be willing to start a conversation and learn about her. This will take the pressure off both of you and make the conversation more pleasant.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (17 November 2007):
 Sometimes easier said than done.
However, for the basics ask her if she would like to go out for coffee or a coke or even a light lunch.
Automatically presume you will pay unless she says she will pay for hers.
This will put her at ease. From there just be yourself and things should go well from there.
Hope this helps. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): You just gotta do it. Its like riding a bike, you get better at it the more you do it. Its always daunting because you are essentially asking someone to judge you but its fun and you need to do it if you want to get some...
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