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writes:i have 3 sisters and i really only get on with 2 of them. Wel when i say i don't get on with my youngest i mean we fight adn argue all the time. She is in her teenage years has a quick firy temper and everytime we talk we always end up arguing. So to save the fights and arguments we just dont really talk. I am 6 years older than her and we live in the same house.Recently she told mum that nothing she ever does is ever good enough for me, that i don't care about her and she thinks that i think she doesn't exsist. ANd this is really not true. We have the same temper and i think thats why we always fight, well we had a talk the other night and we decided that we don't know enough about each other, well as much as we should. I really do love her and want to get closer to her, how would i do this? what do i do to show her that i do love her ??? i don't want to be the family who grow up and don't speak as we all would be quite close, just except me n her. Reply to this Question
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (9 December 2010):
It takes two to argue. does not matter who starts it, since you are older, finish it.
If you choose to listen more and speak less, there will be less chances to argue. Most arguements start when two people are trying to get their point across at the same time.
So if you are doing more listening...then? :)
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