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writes: I need help. My fiance just found out about me having an affair and now everything is off. She had every right to break up with me but I want to change. I've never had an affair before and I was dedicated to her for several years without ever thinking about anyone else. Everyone tells me once a cheater always a cheater, I don't want this life.....does anyone have any advice on how to change. I don't ever want to do it again.
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reader, Sarahbum +, writes (27 December 2005):
There must have been something wrong with your relationship for you to cheat in the first place. Next time, if you're tempted to cheat, think about it, think about you, think about her. Are you two going anywhere? Why do you want to cheat? Is she not satisfying you?
Maybe you should take a break from any relationship until you decide what exactly it is you want.
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reader, iloveamy  +, writes (28 November 2005):
Are you hurting now you've split up?If so, remember how this feels...and if you're ever tempted again in the future - remember how much hurt you've caused her and you...I've learnt this in the last week, I've been tempted to mess about but haven't done anything (luckily)...and in the mean time my girlfriend has asked for some space because i've been odd recently.I am hurting so so so much, and i am knocking this playing game on the head - no more.I love my girlfriend, i'm gonna change whats wrong and be who she needs me to be...a loving boyfriend.
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