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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hiya everyone! - gay male from London, happy with my sexuality and out to pretty much everyone :) met with a guy the same age as me last night and I wasn't expecting it but if there's such a thing as love at first sight I think I found it! I stayed at his the night and cant stop thinking about him. I don't know what to do as yes, like me he is looking for a serious relationship, but no, I don't know if he likes me as much. He is much more physically attractive than I am (in my opinion anyway). I'm not used to this sort of infatuation, normally being very reserved and closed with who I admire. How do I remain cool without making him think I'm not interested??? Also would it be a bad move to blow off the other 2 guys I've been dating/have arranged a date with? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmmm... I'm not sure how he feels still. He seems neither uninterested nor eager to see me again, having twice put forward seeing me due to university deadlines - granted, an understandable excuse, but frustrating as I too am at university and still find time for other people. :P
I don't personally think it's a bad thing to be dating more than one guy when its so early on in the process with all three of them, but I guess that's down to opinion. I just feel it would be an overly presumptuous move to burn bridges with the other two before I even know if this guy requites my feelings/lust/whatever-it-is, and feel that I would be landed with a nice generous portion of Sod's law and end up with nothing.
Anyway thankyou both for your advice :) I will heed it and remain patient. Will try to keep you updated :)
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (12 December 2012):
 HI
I feel it would be unkind to continue with the other dates, being that you have very strong feelings for this new guy. I wouldn't go in all emotions on the surface, but I would ask him if he would like to go out for a meal or something, last night was a lust thing firstly, give eachother the time to see if it really IS love at first sight. And hey! don't put yourself down he OBVIOUSLY thinks your a good looking guy.
Mandy x
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