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writes: How do you rekindle your passion for success. I remember being quite gritty guy when I was in teens. I have been fairly a good student ...I should say better than 80% of my colleagues. I loved doing what I wanted and have done this in past or I should say recent past. But couple of my decisions went bad and here I am a lad without any good career/bank balance/girlfriend/physique. I am probably the last in the queue. On top of have I don't seem to have any of the practical skills of life. Do you know I don't know how to ride a bike!!..you might laugh but I am so much ashamed of this. My family is very supportive of me. I understand that I need to work on the quarters I think I am weak in BUT every time I start I miss my old commitment towards my goal. More often than not I tend to wander into my imaginary world or say watching porn. I have slowly begun to realize that this is killing my all relationships. I know it is not difficult for me but how do I make myself work?? How do I make myself committed towards my goals. Please help!! I would appreciate if you are a professional in the field. Any other advice is also welcome. Thanking you in anticipation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): hey pastfirst ...thnx I had posted that question. Thanks for your support. I just can't tell you how much your answer matters to you. Love you for your supportive suggestion. God bless you
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reader, pastfirst  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 I think you're at a stage of your life where your priorities are changeing.
Success isn't only about work. It's about relationships and love and having a family.
You seem to be rather low in self esteem which is probably preventing you from meeting women.
Take yourself in hand. Get your physique into shape. Go on a diet get some exercise. It'll build up your physique and your confidence.
Not everyone knows how to ride a bike, but you're never too old to learn.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You're the only one who can change your life!
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reader, redimerfortitudo +, writes (8 February 2009):
I have the same problem. I used to be so competitive and successful. I was always on top. Up until 7th grade, I was that one kid who was the best in his class in everything. I always had the best grades, I was pretty athletic, and I was liked by people. The thing is I have a birth defect. My hands are deformed. When I reached the 7th grade, my life was changed. I was picked on all year. I never the same again.Now I found myself fat, unmotivated, afraid, uncompetitive, and addicted to porn. I try to bring myself back, but I just can't. I feel inferior all the time....it used to be so different. I just wanted to let you know man, that I have the same problem. Perhaps I can tell you some good effects? Ever since I have been more humble and understanding of people. I try to take nothing for granted. Perhaps you could find something good in your life?
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