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writes:I have not had much luck with girls, or any luck really. They never seem to notice me. I play guitar pretty well. I play soccer and keep in shape. People say that I am kinda funny and not bad looking. Yet despite all that, girls don't seem to care that I am here. Maybe it's because I am not popular. How do I get girls to notice me? I do talk to girls and have quite a few female friends, but how do I get a girl to like me? Do I have to put on a fireworks show for them?
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reader, kittybe  +, writes (13 March 2013):
 Hey! My little piece of advice may not be exactly what you are looking for, but from the hindsight of age and experience, I can tell you one thing. It's not about looks, and it's not even about what you do. Sure, looks do help, but truly, they don't matter so much. It's all about confidence. Eventually, you will realise that there is NOTHING more attractive than a confident person. I'm sure you know some people like this yourself - not necessarily good looking, possibly not even very special, but everyone flocks to them. Believe yourself to be attractive, behave in such a way like there are TONNES of girls dying to know you, and it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I don't mean, become stuck-up or mean or whatever. Be the guy that's every girl's dream, add a little eye contact if there's a particular girl's attention you want to catch (don't be shy), and they will love you. believe me, us girls do notice. How do I know? I've had this dilemma at your age too ;-) Best of luck.
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reader, Cheeky Madam +, writes (13 March 2013):
I spent most of my teen years single no one seemed to like me even though I was slim and people said I was pretty then when I hit 18 older guys would chase me, found out its because I was pretty but guys felt they faced rejection. I found this after finally meeting my current boyfriend he said that him and his friend thought I would say no as they felt they weren't good enough.
All it takes is you to have faith in yourself and feel more confident, when you feel like that make your move, you might wait a while for a girl to ask you out as I know I would never of approached my boyfriend if he didn't.
Good luck and hope you find someone :D
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (13 March 2013):
 Hey man oh believe me youve got things girls go for. In fact even as big as I am some girl playfully told me she prefers a guy who plays soccer lol use those hobbies to illustrate ur confidence. What are u good at with guitar? Any accomplishments? Same with soccer. Be confident but not cocky when talking about these things to girls. At ur age develop initiative. Approach girls. Dont be nervous n b calm n cool with ur approach n thats easy to do since u have a good sense of humor. Good luck.
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