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writes:I have been seeing this guy for about a year we just moved into a house together almost 2 months ago I also have 3 kids that r not his but he is really good with them...but for the past 2 weeks we have been fighting about i really dont know he has stayed at his dads a few times and this past friday he went 2 a concert and didnt come home till the next day after work as i was at work he checked my email and found emails that i had made a post on craigslist looking for a guy but i had a b/f...and one of the emails from a guy had been replied 2 now i know it sounds as if i did do it but i was at work when the post was made and i had not been in my email account for 2 days and an ex b/f had my password 2 my email and my sister who has done some horribe things 2 me before he wont talk 2 me so how do i prove to him i didnt post or reply 2 the emails???/ i need advice I love him very much and dont want 2 lose him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): So you have a good guy that is good with your kids. They aren't even his but he accepted you along with them and even moved in with you? So he treats you and the kids well, but you thought It was a good idea to post on craigslist for a guy. Smart right?My advice, explain the whole password thing and change them in his presence.Then cut all contact with you ex's! And don't give up your password to anyone. Offer to give it to him so he can see for himself you aren't hiding anything.
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reader, shadowjin +, writes (12 April 2010):
 There really is no way to force him to believe you.
if you didn't post that on craigslist and someone else did you should bring it to his attention. This is why its good to change your passwords to your email accounts and not make them easy to guess (this includes secret questions to allow access). emails should be personal . It might show dedication to your relationship but it shouldn't have to get to that level that your current bf can access them.
Ive had alot of friends have the same problem and its hard to give advice. Mostly because it really comes down to trust. If this was me and my GF accused me of going on craigslist. I would first read post and try to prove that its not my writing style and (for me) point out the fact i find craigslist and any online dating site to be worthless and she knows this. This is a real serious issues and the only thing you can do is trust that he believes you .
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