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36-40,
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writes:i am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend wants us to talk about our sexual fantasies online... i don't mind at all and actually he's very good at it but the problem is that frankly i don't know how to express my thoughts and my feelings through words... i want to please him and make him happy but i don'[t know how... any help?! please... :)
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reader, ASAP +, writes (14 October 2007):
ASAP is verified as being by the original poster of the question i'll try both tips.. i'll ask him what he'd like to hear me say... and i liked the "anything that starts with, what makes me horny..." actually, he likes to hear this word from me... lol ;)
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reader, ASAP +, writes (14 October 2007):
ASAP is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks Tommy and Lila... the thing is that he is very understanding and in order to show me that he is not pushing, he keeps repeating all the time that he wants me happy, wants to take care of me and never wants me to do what i don't feel... i want him badly but i can only express by the real thing.. if you know what i mean.. translating these acts into words is very hard and not pleasurable "at least for me"... but i want to satisfy his needs.. he is an amazing guy... when he starts describing to me how much he wants me and if we were together like before what will he do to/with me... i say ALMOST nothing! lol... i need a BOOK not just a tip... pffffff! lol ^.^
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (14 October 2007):
Ask him what he would like to hear you say. Keep good notes and make up a few on your own.
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reader, Lila +, writes (14 October 2007):
 Tell him what you think is hot and use dirty words,that should do. Tell him you want to F@$% him on a pool table with a crowd full of strangers,in an airplane bathroom,in Six Flags on Batman night. Men like anything that starts with,what makes me horny is.... GOOD LUCK!
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