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writes: Recently, a female friend in my place of work broke up with her boyfriend and was very flirty with me, we kissed on a night out and ended up staying up all night talking and really connecting. A female friend of mine has recently expressed an interest in making more of our relationship and i am torn between the two. I would like to take things further with the first girl because, although at first i was attracted to the friend, i dont feel it anymore. What do i do? How do i let my friend down gently so as not to hurt her feelings, but also let the other girl know im intersted, even though she is not really interested in a relationship at this time?? Please HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2006): Hi honey, I think you need to be really tactfull in your situation. Theres no point lieing to either of these girls so let the friend know (gently) that u feel loads for her as a mate but noting else (she may feel a bit stupid/hurt at the time but she will thank u for the honesty in the long run) also make sure you let your friend know that you are also interested in someone else (she would feel even more humiliated if u turned her down then she found out u were seeing someone else so quickley) and secondly let the girl you like know how you feel, to be fair if she turns you down well atlease you tried and you know where u stand. Good luck with it x
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