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How do I know when it's OK to kiss her?

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Question - (10 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been seeing a girl,we have known each other 5 weeks now, seen each other 5 times, initial date, then played snooker and had dinner,then she came to play some xbox360, then i made her lunch, then last night we went to a movie.

Thing is I like her, but I am not the best at reading signals from women, I think she must like me too if she continues to welcome coming out with me on dates, right?

So last night after we parted, we usually have a very warm embrace, then I texted her thanking her for the evening, and that she is lucky I lack courage, she replied she enjoyed the evening, then I joked if she'd give me a Glasgow kiss (headbutt) if I went in for a non Glasgow kiss, she replied women don't reveal their secrets so I will have to find out myself.

Is this a green light to kiss her? 5 dates is a long time, I'm scared to propose a 6th! Do men always have to kiss the woman first?

She works hard, but is free next on Thursday, I was thinking not to text her until then, or should I arrange early to meet? Ladies like suspense and intrigue right?

Will she have this on her mind too now, if i move in, will it feel manufactured?

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A female reader, Trinklett Canada +, writes (11 March 2012):

Trinklett agony auntNo, it wouldn't feel manufactured. She has already told you to wait and find out what the kiss will be like. That's a green light to me. On your next date, after the embrace, close your eyes and kiss her or if you're nervous, ask if you can kiss her. By the sixth date, she's more than willing to kiss you. I know I will :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012):

Woman dont always like suspense hun and not txting her for long periods of time may make her feel insecure or that you have lost interest, it sounds to me like she does want you to kiss her and that by saying that you should 'find out' she is giving you permition. If you like her then go for it, she is probably just as shy as you and worried about making the first move. Good luck!

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