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writes:How do i know if he wants to be more than friends with benifits ? how can i Find out if he cares? How do i realize if im just another girl to him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (11 June 2012):
 Go for a long vacation...and see how how things are when you return...you'l get your answer
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reader, Justinara  +, writes (11 June 2012):
Ask yourself why are you being a friend with benefits?
Friends with benefit actually work in the guys favour, while it may work in your favour for a while, its you who has strong feelings for him. So you see.
I say even though you like him just tell him you are not into being friends with benefit no more and that you are looking for someone for a relationship. If he is not willing to give you up than you know he may have a real thing for you. If he lets you go, well you can fight for him all you want, if he is not fighting for you, he is not worth the time.
Be honest and speak to him. Have a real conversation, if you can't talk to him how will you even have a proper relationship? Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2012): The trouble with these Friends with Benefits things is that there is always one who wants it to be more.
Try to value yourself, and hold on till you find someone who can give you more, which is what you want isn't it.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 June 2012):
 Easy: if he has asked you to be FWB, or anyway involved you in an FWB situation, he does not care on principle, to begin with.
If he'd care, he'd want to date you. If you find yourself only meeting up for sex, that's all you are good for in his eyes.
And yes, you are just another girl to him.If you were anything special, you'd know, he would have made it quite clear, and you would not be posting this.
Girlfriend and FWB are two separate career tracks just from the start.
Exceptions ? Yes, there's nothing that cannot have exceptions.But,very rare. Who knows, maybe 1% of times.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (11 June 2012):
 Does he show interest in your likes/ dislikes?
does he woo you?
does he seem genuinely interested in what you have to say?
does he ask to see you more than often?
does he make you feel special?
if the above answers are yes he's wanting to be more than a friends with benefit :)
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