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writes:me and my boyfriend have been together for like half a week now and we've been friends for a month...we had sex and i think i am pregnant... i'm seventeen years old in high school he's nineteen and in college...my parents know me and him are dating and they love him... but how do i know for sure if i'm pregnant or not and how do i tell him i think i am pregnant (i'm not here for people to tell me i'm a whore or say that i'm to young to have sex please i just need the advice i ask for and that's all) thank you and have a wonderful day[Moderator's note: No need to worry, we don't accept here any messages that are offensive to the poster.] Reply to this Question
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reader, Bunny1987  +, writes (3 November 2008):
Heyyou need to be at ease with yourself before you tell him that your pregnant or think you are. You need to be completely sure what you want to do first remember he may have helped in this but you gotta carry it for 9 months so the decision is all yours. tell your parents your young and have your life ahead of you but you need to speak with them first. dont be afraid. you need to think positively about the outcome. remember its your life, your decision. be head strong and stick to what you want. not anyone else. just make sure you know what your letting yourself in for. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): hmm half a week, thats really very very early on to be thinking that a baby is the next step! I don't think your too young to be having sex, it is legal. It's up to u how long you wait before you sleep with each other, but having to start thinking whether you want a child together when you have been seeing each other 3/4 days is just crazy, did you not choose to use any contraception at all? Even for std's sake you really should have done. Anyway the deed is done now so if it was less than 72 hours ago get yourself to the family planning or your doctor for the emergency contraception and if its too late then buy a couplf of tests and use one now, wait a week then do the second one then you can be sure you aren't. In the furture though take precautions and you won't end up in this position again! x
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reader, Midge +, writes (24 September 2008):
 Well the best way to find out first and foremost is to go and buy a pregnancy test at a local pharmacy. Take the test and then if you are pregnant, you need to tell your boyfriend.
Its not going to be easy telling him, but its something you would need to do relatively quickly. He will probably be in a state of shock to start with, so dont be offended if he kinda stands there dumbstruck for a few minutes. Give him time to take it all in.
The best and only way to tell him, is to just tell him! I AM PREGNANT. If that is the case. Take him somewhere quiet and tell him obviously!
If you are pregnant you have a lot to start thinking of, but dont rush any decisions. But first and foremost, find out if you are pregnant first. There are many kits on the market that will tell you if you are pregnant within a few days of having sex.
Good Luck and let us know how you get on!
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