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writes:I have problems. Problems that most teenage girls don't have. As weird as this is to tell people, I'm a frequent masturbater and I have been for years. While that might be sort of normal, I just started having sex a few weeks ago. I'm 19 and have an unofficial boyfriend of two years (we don't like relationship labels) who I don't see very often because he lives 500 miles away. About two weeks after we started having sex, he got in a really bad car accident. He's been in a coma for a week. While I'm beyond upset, I'm having a hard time controlling sexual urges since sex is new to me. Masturbation just doesn't cut it anymore. I don't want to cheat on him, but I'm so lonely and upset and...eager. How can I keep myself from making poor decisions? Reply to this Question
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 What, really, are you asking? It kinda sounds like you're asking whether it's OK to just go find someone else to screw. You know that's not the right thing. Get real, girl, everyone goes through dry times when we can't get what we want. If you love your guy then stay faithful to him while he's recovering. If masturbation is a poor substitute, then do it until he's recovered enough -- he'll be very grateful.
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reader, Freezing Iron  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 you gotta divert your attention to other things girl. I think seeing your boyfriend like that is kinda harsh and It's a poor thing. Cheating is like masterbating, addictive. And if you do that, it won't help your bf wake up from coma. Stop watching porns. You'll suffer more if you won't.
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