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*haron071422
writes:my husband cheated on me, so many questions coming out in my mind, he said and promise me that its really over with d other woman but so many evidence coming out from d shelter keeps me in pain, what should and must i do in order not to affect our kids? what in this world it's really unfair if we stay in this way? thinking for our kids i think im d only one who consider this coz of evidences i found...he still doing it!!! i really don't know what to do? pls help me, tnx
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reader, sharon071422 +, writes (24 December 2011):
sharon071422 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni guess this is it, i can no longer live with him anymore... living in lies??? y do i have to suffer in this mess, letting him go is so hard & painful but i guess, i deserve also to be happy... up to now, they're still communicating with each other, it's so unfair!!! i can't lived in this way...
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reader, babu3u  +, writes (21 December 2011):
 When my mom found out my dad was cheating on her emotionally I remember being in the middle of it. My mom knew I could get into my dad's computer and get the email my dad and the other women were sending to each other. She made me read them and print them. It was one of the most awful experience I ever had. You and your husband have to deal with this on your own. You shouldn't let your kids be part on it at all. If you are going to argue do it where your kids can't hear you. If you involve your kids in anyway they are going to feel guilty when is not their fault at all. I hope everything goes well and I hope for the very best for you and your family.
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reader, iiSparkle  +, writes (21 December 2011):
 You need to ask him face to face, put aside the evidence for the moment and talk to your husband about what is going on.
If he denies all then tell him what you found out and if he admits to it then tell him to stop.
There is no point in carrying on a relationship that is full of lies especially where children are involved.
Take matters into your own hand and talk to him about this.
Hope all goes well.
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