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writes:My question is about the male sex time.what the average male sex time till ejaculation and how to increase it.i feel mine is really short.My gf (she had bf b4 me) said me that male timing in first shot is smaller so come second time to satisfy her.is that right?i discussed it with my friends too they said its all on brain,, but how can we control brain?my main concern is how to increase sex time, even in firt short.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): its actualy quite simple...although you may not enjoy the idea and in some bad cases it can put you off sex...but you should first time yourself masturbating with no tricks,and then compare it to other "sesions" and then when you have sex think of the thing that turns you off the most without loosing your errection. open your eyes and look just above her face (if she has her eyes closed other wise at her) and just move your hips without thinking about the actual sex.concerntrate on something un sexy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Well your friends are right.
It is all about control.
For a male cumming is a state of mind. If your constantly thinking about cumming while having sex then it will decrease your time before you "blow your load".
The average male takes less than three minutes from the time of insertion till he ejaculates.
While your having sex trying focusing on pleasing her first. Getting her to cum a few times before you do. Focus on hitting her g-spot and making her moan or just relaxing your mind and enjoying the sex.
Here is a website that might help with your question:
http://www.askmen.com/dating/dzimmer/14_love_answers.html
hope you figure everything out!
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reader, urbanking99 +, writes (11 July 2009):
Like anything in life you do have to use your brain for control. However remember that sex for both people is there to be enjoyed and savoured. If you want to last longer, think of your love making as a Seven course Banquet, rather than a snack grabbed whilst on the go.
It's not about the destination but what happens on the journey that counts.
Have fun.
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