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*francy
writes:well my cousin was in a relationship with a guy for almost a year, and then she broke up with him because he doesn't give her enough attention. after some time she realized she can not move on. and then she went back to her ex and tried to apologize but her ex is always giving her excuses and asking for time to re-think over if they can still make things work, but then when ever he date is due he keep on postponing. what should she do now.. i do not know how to help her.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 Why do you "need" to "help" your cousin? The situation your describe is perfectly clear.... two indecisive people "dancing" about, in a doomed "relationship" just waiting until one or the other finally gets sufficiently ticked-off to walk away from this toxic arrangement.
Good luck to your cousin....
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reader, Mariab  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 I think that only your cousin can fix this. You can advise her but the final decision is hers and she needs to realize for herself that he is wasting her time. Its hard to watch people we love be hurt but just be there for her.
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