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writes: my gf and I have been dating for over 6 months. I love her and I know she feels the same. I fell a bit clumsy when it comes to her breasts... She is a petite, beautiful and smart woman with gorgeous long hair and the most amazing pair of natural (c cup) breasts that are proportionate to her body (not overly large, and definitely not too small).What are some things I can do with her breasts that she may enjoy? Some ideas to do while she is wearing clothes, when she has just a bra on and some while she is naked would help. What are some good ways to drive crazy in a good way?While she is wearing clothes walk up behind her (in private), and reach around to gently cup her breasts while she was cooking in the kitchen, or do the same while laying with her on the couch and watching television, etc seems like a fun thing to do. Any advice for doing that?What is the best way to touch breasts while kissing ?I have seen her in a bra and she looks cute. Any advice for touching her breasts and some of the things that be done while she is wearing a bra?I have not seen her naked yet and we have not had sex yet. I think that will be the next step in our relationship. Any advice as to what i can do with her naked breasts? I have not seen her naked yet and we have not had sex yet. I think that will be the next step in our relationship. Any advice as to what I can do with her breasts and to drive crazy when we take that next step? What can I do with my hands, mouth, and lips that she may enjoy? I want to let her know I think her breasts are perfect and beautiful! I see it as a very special link between us. I feel it is a way in which I can make her feel beautiful and loved. I feel as if no one else should be touching them but me as her boyfriend and her lover at that point and her
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2022): Guess there's no PG13 answer to this question. The best sex is "I'd die of embarrassment if the chamber maid walked in now." I like when my husband fucks me between my boobs while I'm giving him a blowjob. Probably if I had to sign a permission slip, at 18 with my first sex boyfriend, I wouldn't have. We just sorta spontaneously went there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2022): I think as a young-man you need to understand how women think and feel when they are objectified.
I took this from another post, read the post from the anonymous female reader:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/things-went-downhill-after-i-complimented-her-on.html
Get to know the young-lady. Like her for all she is, not for what she looks like, her body, and her appearance. Young males need an education on how women should be treated from their fathers and male role-models. Not live life as if they're in a porn video.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2022): You feel as if no-one else should be touching them?!! Until you get her permission, neither should you! You don't make a girl feel beautiful and loved by fondling her boobs. That comes when she feels she truly likes you; and knows you well enough to trust you. When she knows you really do care for her. Not just anxious for the chance to get your grubby hands on her breasts!
You will never "own" them, just because you become her boyfriend; they happen to be among her attached body parts! A girlfriend is not your property.
You can ask her how she would like to be touched; but try not to obsess over her boobs. There's more to her than what you see. You may not drive her crazy in a good way; but drive her away, by acting a little too pervy over her boobies. Seriously, dude?!!
If you focus too much on the young-lady's looks, that makes you superficial. You'll forget she has feelings, and lose track of the fact you are also looking at a person. That would mean you're not really in-love with her; you're just fixated and over-impressed with her looks. She becomes objectified, and treated like some sort of prize, or an ornament. Just a show-piece, or arm-candy; someone to showoff, to impress your buddies. Just a "body" you can't wait to get your paws on; while you shower her in love-bombing, sappy sweettalk, and a bunch of BS. All sorts of baloney, only to get your way with her. Slow your roll, stud! Enjoy her also as a good-soul and a person.
Trust me, any young-woman would want you to care for her for who she is, not just for what she looks like. Unless she's conceited and narcissistic; she'll get tired of being showered with compliments about her looks. Your eyes always focused on her chest area. If she is a beautiful-girl, she gets that all the time. How will she know who really likes her, and not just her looks, or her body?
This is DC, we do give advice in many areas; but some things you have to workout between you and the object of your affections. You are talking about her breasts, as if they're unattached to a human being. Sitting there in-front of you on a tray like cupcakes.
We're experienced and intelligent people here; we know when you're blowing smoke up our skirts, my friend. Take it easy! You're laying it on pretty thick! You're young, and we get that.
I think it's best to let her decide how or when she wants her body to be touched, or fondled. We don't know her, and obviously you haven't gotten that familiar with her yet; that you can be deciding on how you want to fondle her boobs. Work on getting to know her; and maybe you'll instinctively figure-out how you should touch her body.
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reader, EmmyApple +, writes (10 January 2022):
The biggest thing here is consent. My husband is constantly feeling my boobs and my ass, but we’ve established that I’m comfortable with it and I’m okay with him feeling them whenever he feels like it. You have not established that kind of relationship with her yet. You need to ask her for permission before touching her breasts or taking off any of her clothing. It may be awkward but it’s super important. Respect her wishes. Some women love being touched all the time, others find it annoying. Don’t do anything by surprise especially at this stage in your relationship. Don’t sneak up behind her while she’s cooking especially if she’s holding a knife - you might startle her. Go slow and make sure she’s comfortable each step of the way.
There is no right or wrong as long as you have asked permission and gotten consent. My husband is more into my ass than my breasts although he does love to feel both. His favorite thing to do with my breasts is suck on them like a baby. This can be done in any position but it usually starts when he’s laying down. I get on my hands and knees and get on top of him so my breasts are hanging down over his face. He loves to suck on my breasts while grabbing and rubbing my ass with his hands. I usually start wearing yoga pants and a tight top and I let him take my clothes off at his pace.
If she is in shape this position should be pretty easy. If she is strong enough to do push-ups she can tease you by doing push-ups over top of you so her breasts go up and down over your face. I can’t do this because I’m overweight and too out of shape. Being on my hands and knees is too hard for me to do for more than a few minutes so our play often starts there but quickly moves to something less strenuous like laying side by side.
You mentioned that she’s petite so I’m assuming she’s in decent physical fitness but this is just something to be aware of. If you haven’t taken her shirt off yet, again consent is very important. A lot of girls are nervous about their shirt coming off because their whole belly is exposed and if there is excess fat there (very common) it can be a big big source of embarrassment for her. Even petite girls struggle with a bit of extra weight and you don’t want her to feel uncomfortable. If she has fat rolls don’t grab them even though it’s tempting. Girls feel embarrassed when attention is drawn to their far areas so keep the focus on her breasts and not her tummy fat.
I guess these ideas are more for her than you! It may be too weird for you to ask her to do some of these things for you. Some girls are more comfortable in a bra than naked because they may not like how their breasts sag when naked. Listen to what she’s comfortable with!
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