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How do I get to spend time with her away from the conference?

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Question - (24 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2008)
A male age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I have a sexual fantasy that I would like to live out. Perhaps you

can tell me how. As part of my job I go to many conferences in different cities. These conferences last for a few days to a week.

At these conference I often see a beautiful woman that I would like to take to bed. Can I achieve this? How should I first approach her? How do I get to spend time with her away from the conference?

How can I get her to come to my hotel room?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (24 August 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntWell, if she's a slut it'll be easy - say, "hey sweet cheeks, I'm looking to sack you so my hotel room is #232, just meet me up there. You bring the booze, I'll bring my hot bod."

However, you will not be this lucky with most hot babes. If you want to get to know this girl (in the biblical sense or otherwise), I hope you're willing to put in the time like a decent human being trying to court a gal he's interested in. Romance her, but don't lead her on in thinking that you're actually interested in anything other than her beautiful figure. Because that's just not right.

xx India

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A female reader, amayameda United States +, writes (24 August 2008):

amayameda agony auntWow, yeah. I kind of have to agree with belladonna123 on this one. I think they are purely sexual intentions, since you say "sexual" and "fantasies". I've never heard anyone call the desire to form a relationship, a "sexual fantasy".

Why don't you invite her out for coffee or a nightcap after an especially greuling meeting. Then, do some of your best un-sleazy wooing. If she seems responsive, tell her how you feel... how you REALLY feel. None of this "I fell in love with you the moment I layed eyes on you" BS. No lies. Tell her THAT you want her, WHY you want her, and for HOW LONG you want her. But, you know, with more class. Then the ball is in her court. Either she's up for it, or she's not. And if she turns you down, let it go. You wouldn't want a sexual harrassment suit on your hands because you refused to stop drooling on her.

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A female reader, belladonna123 Tonga +, writes (24 August 2008):

well if i was the girl i definately won't let you near me or my knickers, that's of course if your intentions are purely sexual. Are they?

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