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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Theres this girl, and she is totaly in love with me, and we dated for less than half a month, Ive been overseas for 2 months before that, and we met 2 days before I left. she broke up with her BF to be with me. we have had sex in many ocations, and I realy liked her, but now, I wonder, cause the past year, I was brutaly hurt,cause I fell inlove cause I had sex (foolish mistake). Recently, I asked if she realy liked me, and she said I love you, and I got scared, and thought that Im not ready for this kind of thinking, and I couldnt say it back, and she aks dont you love me back, and I try to say it, but I choke, and I told her this isn't going to work out, cause if I fall in love like I did before, its repeating the same mistake as I did before, even though I know she wont cheat on me. she is now heart broke, and still pissed. and she still asks for another chance. I feel that I should not be giving it, cause Im the one who threw away the relation, and it its my mistake that I threw it away, I should be the one asking for another chance. I hope this iisnt too long. perhaps stupid. but I wanna know if its the right dicision or not. I feel so bad right now, that I want to take her back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): should I take my time and when Im ready to ask to take me back? cause she might loose her feelings for me if I wait too long. or do you sugest I pick up some balls and ask ASAP? or option 3, let her settle down and be friends.
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